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gay or not i still love me some ricky martin. all ...

2010-03-31T19:30:36.823-06:00

gay or not i still love me some ricky martin. all he has to do is just wear tight pants and shake his butt! but srlsy, i serioulsy admire any gay person who comes out; mostly because you have a choice. see, being black i had no choice. so if i had a choice, i cant say that i'd be as brave as all of those who have come out. i'm already out (as a black person: aint no hiding it).

Because most people are a-holes, that's how.

2010-03-31T14:23:36.901-06:00

Because most people are a-holes, that's how.

Just fell off my chair in surprise...not!!!

2010-03-30T05:57:05.445-06:00

Just fell off my chair in surprise...not!!!

people are scared of people who are different from...

2010-03-30T01:37:10.233-06:00

people are scared of people who are different from them cause they just don't have the capacity or compassion to understand them. The safety is in conformity...which is actually total bullshit.

I am glad that Ricky Martin was not scared any more and accepted and declared who he is. Very brave of him I must say.

Thing is being gay shouldn't be a cause it sho...

2010-03-29T22:20:55.180-06:00

Thing is being gay shouldn't be a cause it should just be. I hope that makes sense. As another commenter said someday it won't matter.

Ricky Martin is not past his super duper mega star...

2010-03-29T20:17:42.104-06:00

Ricky Martin is not past his super duper mega star sex symbol peak; his picture still hangs on my fridge (on the side of the fridge so the front can feature my super duper mega star sex symbol husband-to-be). Hugs, honey.

I agree, everyone coming out makes gay people more...

2010-03-29T19:35:29.945-06:00

I agree, everyone coming out makes gay people more visible to people who might not otherwise think about this equality movement -- or other equality movements -- at all.

And yep I also agree with the abs comment...

And LOVE the comment by RH that it is the haters who are making the choice by choosing to live their lives with judgement and hatred.

Good for him! Anyone that comes out helps the cau...

2010-03-29T19:27:54.364-06:00

Good for him! Anyone that comes out helps the cause.

oops!!! typos... sorry. :(~ HUGZ

2010-03-29T19:15:49.751-06:00

oops!!! typos...
sorry.
:(~

HUGZ

i would normally yawn, as this is no news to me......

2010-03-29T19:14:49.788-06:00

i would normally yawn, as this is no news to me... but for the hate-mongers, if karma serves them right, they will come back as what they despise most: themselves!!!!
what bugs me about those people though is that they usually spill their venom "anonimously", not having the guts to sign up their ofeensive behavior.

HUGZ

Love your closing line, RH. Can't believe I ha...

2010-03-29T18:13:28.548-06:00

Love your closing line, RH. Can't believe I hadn't seen it like that before.

Gay or not the guy has great abs and that all that...

2010-03-29T17:36:38.181-06:00

Gay or not the guy has great abs and that all that matters.

I'm not in the celebrities should come out camp, and really I hope one day it wont be an issue, I do say good on him for not giving into the pressure in his hey day to make the announcement (not that it really would be an announcement). He has waited until he is in the right place for him and, that should be his choice, not mine or the medias.

As to the hate-mongers. I wish they would realise their decision to view the world with hate and judgement is the true "choice".

All I can say is "It figures"...I just w...

2010-03-29T16:42:46.399-06:00

All I can say is "It figures"...I just watched this video yesterday.."The Bible Told Me So".. with my daughter about the church and its horrible, destructive stand on homosexuality...
and the power it has had over the years regarding lifestyles...I thought Id heard it all, till I saw this....fear and self hate drives these views...Ricky looks awesome there...Thanks for posting this..!..Have a Great Day Brahm...

Well no shocker there with hunky Ricky but those h...

2010-03-29T16:37:20.224-06:00

Well no shocker there with hunky Ricky but those hurtful, unnecessary, judgement comments still shock me.

People write crap like that because they fear what...

2010-03-29T16:27:00.296-06:00

People write crap like that because they fear what they do not know. I actually feel sorry for people who say so horrible things to another human being. Too bad in their next life they will probably come back as a cockroach......or the next Tiger Wood, whichever is worse : )